Mindful Parents May Raise Less Troubled Kids

We’ve all heard how being more mindful can benefit us individually with more wellbeing, happiness, and emotional resilience.  According to recent research, children who experience mindful parenting tend to be less likely to do drugs or become depressed and anxious.  One study out of the University of Vermont surveyed over 600 parents who participated in a mindfulness program for parents.  Their children ranged in ages from 3-17.  In an article out of Mindful Magazine suggests “encouraging more mindful, responsive parenting—and less harsh punishments or yelling—may indirectly help kids to avoid some of the at risk behavior of adolescence—like anxiety, depression, acting out, and drug use.” 

 

What are some takeaways?

It’s not just about being more positive.  It’s more important for a parent to be emotionally attuned to their child than to be either positive or negative in their interactions The research suggests the following three key factors to keep in mind about mindful parents.

  1. Noticing your own feelings when you’re in conflict with your child,
  2. Learning to pause before responding in anger,
  3. Listening carefully to a child’s viewpoint even when disagreeing with it.

Sounds like good advice for all of us to remember when in conflict. 

 

Why Mindful Parenting?

Being more in tune with our feelings or reactions — pausing before overreacting — may make a difference.  Justin Parent, lead author of the study says, “To bring mindful attention and awareness into your interactions with your child really seems to set the stage for you to be a good parent.”  The research also shows more mindful parenting engaged in more positive and less negative parenting behavior which then linked to more positive behavior in their kids.  This tended to result in their children showing less anxiety, depression, and acting out.  The researchers don’t exactly know why this has occurred and has suggested more study in this area.  In fact, their next research will compare a conventional parenting course with mindful parenting.

Vicki Atlas Israel is passionate about helping you and your family thrive.  She’s a Mindset Coach, Certified in Guided Imagery, a Consultant at a pediatric hospital, and the author of National Bestseller “Inner Power NOW.”Contact Vicki for a FREE Inner Power Discovery Session at Vicki@HeartTalkNow.com.  Vicki also conducts Inner Power Mindset Training for teachers, therapists, and those who work with children. 

Journey to Inner Peace for Families

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Journey to Inner Peace for Families:

Making Calm Our Superpower 

Sunday Afternoons:  August 18, September 8, and 15  

Location: Mercy Conference and Retreat Center in St. Louis

Relieve stress and feel more joy. Journey to Inner Peace to build a stronger family.  Learn ways to stress less while also helping your family learn great tools and make CALM our Superpower! Some sessions are for adults, parents, and grandparents with children; others are for adults only. This group experience is also geared for those who work with children and teens.

Click Here to Register 

Adults-$15,  Children and Teens-$5   

Our Facilitator for this series is Vicki Atlas Israel, CGIP
Vicki is a Best Mindset Coach, Certified in Guided Imagery, and the author of National Bestseller Inner Power NOWReduce Stress and Pain. Feel More Peace. Helping You and Your Family Thrive! Hear what famous co-author of Chicken Soup for the Soul ®, Jack Canfield, has to say about Vicki’s book at InnerPowerMindset.com

Register soon!  Space is limited. Click HERE for Flyer. 

 

Join us for one or more sessions to attend:

 


August 18:  Love is Letting Go of Fear

Adults/Parents/Grandparents Only  (1:30 PM)

Are you ready to release stress and fear, hurtful thoughts and old blocks?  Learn better ways to cope, feel more peace, as you discover a loving coach within.


September 8:  Stepping into Your Future:

Parents, Children, and Teens are invited.  (1:30 PM Parents with Kids 6-11 or 3:30 PM Parents with Teens 12-18.  An adult MUST accompany the child, as there is no childcare.)

How would you like to walk into a bright new future?  We will learn how to set a goal or intention, visualize it, then do a walking meditation.


September 15:  Letting Go With Gratitude

Adults/Parents/Grandparents Only  (1:30 PM)

Learn how to empower your best life.  Experience gratitude in a whole new light with guided imagery and journaling.

Click to Join us.  Stress Less and Add More Love and Joy!

CLICK HERE TO PRINT OUT THE FLYER AND REGISTER BY MAIL

 

 

Top 6 Benefits for Group Meditation

Group Meditation for Deeper Connection with Friends and Family

Do you experience anxiety and have difficulty creating a bubble of calm in your life?  Do you crave a deeper connection with your wise inner guide?  Then, group meditation may be for you.  When you experience deep relaxation with other like-minded friends, a bond is created that is more powerful than any connection you have felt before; a unity that transforms your life and brings you inner peace.  Here are the top six benefits for inviting your friends to experience a group meditation.

 

#1  Get feedback: Group meditation allows you to learn from other people’s experiences. If you are uncertain about how to meditate, your meditation group will model the way to physical and mental peace.

#2 Group activities are valuable to connect: We feel better when doing group activities because we create connections with others, tapping into the same silence and source of peace as your meditation mates can make you feel at peace, comfortable, supported and safe.

#3 Brainwaves can synchronize, so the connection you feel with your meditation partners is not only emotional, but physical.

#4  Reduces loneliness: Loneliness permeates our society. Despite electronic devices and the ease of communication, we lack a feeling of being part of something greater than ourselves.  Meditating with a group creates an environment of acceptance and belonging.

#5 Spiritual support: When you meditate with a group, you achieve a group synergy which uplifts the participants to achieve more spiritual awareness.

#6 Research shows that group meditation creates a ripple effect of inner peace which permeates the environment of the meditators enhancing the benefits of the meditation.

If you’re interested, I have a few appointment times left for creating a group mediation with you and your friends.  Book one today at HeartTalkNow.com. or if you want to join an upcoming group meditation for families, Click HERE.

Wishing you peace!

Vicki

Vicki Atlas is passionate about helping you and your family stress less, while adding more love and joy.  She’s a Best Mindset Coach, Certified in Guided Imagery, a Consultant at a pediatric hospital, and the author of National Bestseller Inner Power NOW: Healing Meditations to Reduce Stress and Pain so Children and Families Thrive. The Foreword is written by Jack Canfield, famous for co-creating Chicken Soup for the Soul® series. Click Here to order her book or contact Vicki for a FREE Discovery Session at Vicki@HeartTalkNow.com

 

Top 3 Benefits for Kids and Teens to Meditate

Teach your children to meditate for many benefits. As a Best Mindset Coach and Certified in Guided Imagery, I work with families at a pediatric hospital.  A young boy who had been taught meditation and guided imagery was faced with a medical procedure that scared him.  He told his mom who said, “What would Ms. Vicki have you do?”  The 10-year-old said, “Go to my happy, safe place.”  And that’s what he did. The mom told me this story later as she smiled and reported how the procedure went well, and her son had stayed calm.

Research shows Children who practice yoga, meditation and mindfulness build skills of attention and self-awareness. They have better self-control and make wiser decisions.  They also learn to be more in charge of emotions and behaviors.

1. Social-Emotional Development  

One study found that a social-emotional learning program used with mindfulness was more effective than a classic “social responsibility” program.  Kids in the former treatment had greater empathy, perspective, and emotional control, compared to the control group. They were also more “social” and had lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol than in the control group.

Mindfulness-based cognitive therapy for children (MBCT-C) has also been shown to help improve attention and behavior problems, and reduce anxiety in kids who started out with high anxiety levels.

2.  Attention and Focus

Grownups are concerned about kids and attention. Studies have shown meditation helps children with Attention Hyperactive Disorder or ADHD.   One 2004 study found that children with ADHD who learned meditation with their parents twice weekly in a clinic setting, and kept practicing at home, had better concentration at school, among other benefits. A study in 2013 showed that in boys with ADHD reduced hyperactive behaviors and improved concentration within eight weeks..  

3. Self-Awareness and Self-Control

Mindfulness is intimately connected to self-awareness and naturally to self-regulation. If children learn to be more aware of thought processes and reactions in the present moment, kids learn to manage their own internal conflicts better. And the research has backed this up: one study found that kids who learned mindful awareness practices (MAPs) had better executive function after eight weeks of training twice a week.

Children continue to feel stress at home and at school. Our kids deserve to be equipped with tools to help them better cope. As for parents and teachers, raising happy, healthy, well-adjusted children often feels overwhelming. Parents and educators deserve to know and practice mind-body tools, as well.

If you want to learn more about an upcoming workshop series for Children, Teens, and Families, Click HERE.  In our next segment, we’ll talk about the benefits of Group Meditation.   

Wishing you peace!

 

Vicki Atlas Israel is passionate about helping you and your family stress less, while adding more love and joy.  She’s a Best Mindset Coach, Certified in Guided Imagery, a Consultant at a pediatric hospital, and the author of National Bestseller Inner Power NOW: Healing Meditations to Reduce Stress and Pain so Children and Families Thrive. The Foreword is written by Jack Canfield, famous for co-creating Chicken Soup for the Soul® series. Click Here to order her book or contact Vicki for individual coaching at Vicki@HeartTalkNow.com

Top 7 Stress Busting Tips

April is National Stress Awareness Month 

In honor of my book being published this month during National Stress Awareness Month, here are 7 great tips from my new book Inner Power NOW to help you and your family thrive.  Are you ready to release stress and worry?

When you take time for calm, you’ll be more available for yourself and your family. It’s that airplane warning to  put the oxygen mask on yourself first and then your child.  Please enjoy my favorite  7 Stress Busting Tips for you and your family.

1. Breathe slowly and deeply. 
Before reacting to the next stressful thing, take three deep breaths and release them slowly. If you have a few minutes, try out a relaxation technique such as a brief meditation or guided imagery.

2. Get outside for a break 
Feel the healing power of fresh air. Feel the vibration of being alive and the beauty of nature or the bustle of city life. Don’t be deterred by foul weather or a full schedule. Even five minutes outside can be rejuvenating.

3. Move your body 
We all know exercise can provide an outlet for frustration. Even a quick burst of exercise can help. These may include a quick run up several flights of stairs, doing gentle stretching, or dancing to a favorite tune.

4. Include a joy booster
Plan something rewarding for the end of your stressful day. Enjoy a relaxing bath or read a good book. Turn off your screens and cell phone 30 minutes to an hour before bedtime. Avoid thinking of your to do list for tomorrow. Let yourself fully relax.

5. Give yourself a good laugh 
Laughing helps you feel better in a matter of minutes. It boosts endorphins and other feel-good hormones. It can also put things in perspective. It’s hard to feel fear or anger when we’re laughing.

6. Count your blessings. 
Gratitude is a great way to raise your energy and open your heart.  Think of three good things, even if this day has been full of stress or disappointments. Close your eyes and focus on your heart when you think of three good things.  Make sure you also write them down.

7. Love yourself more!
This is the best medicine. Do the things that make you happy and add more joy. This is a great way to take care of your needs and reduce stress long-term.  Sometimes we become more stressed when we forget about self-care. Spread Loving Kindness to yourself first and then to others.

Wishing you and your family the best!
Vicki 

Vicki Atlas Israel is the Author of #1 Amazon Bestseller “Inner Power NOW.”  Order the book at InnerPowerMindset.com. Contact Vicki if you’re interested in having her speak at your next event.  As a Best Mindset Coach and Certified Guided Imagery Specialist, Vicki’s purpose is to bring more love, joy, and healing to children and families.  You can connect with her on Facebook or email her at Vicki@InnerPowerMindset.com

 

Stress Relief for Caregivers and Families

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Feel Less Stress and More Calm

Improve Your Emotional Resilience As You Care for Your Family

In this group presentation, you will learn ways to breathe for calm and focus like how the US Navy SEALS are trained.   We will experience mindfulness and guided imagery, while connecting to our hearts. Discover mind-body tools that will help families thrive by tapping into your inner power to reduce stress and be happier.

 About the Presenter:

As the Author of the upcoming book Inner Power Now, Vicki Atlas-Israel is a Certified Guided Imagery Practitioner, Best Mindset Coach, and Media Producer.  Organizations hire her to help reduce anxiety and to help their teams, members, patients, and families to gain skills to improve the quality of their lives.

The Power of Visualization and Meditation

This story will make you a true believer in the power of visualization, meditation, and setting intentions.  Believe in miracles and this may happen to you, too.  I’ve had amazing things come true in the last few months that I have to share.   

Last year, I had attended a Breakthrough to Success Training with Jack Canfield, New York Times Bestselling Author and Co-Creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul Series® and The Success Principles®. Jack overheard me talking about a book that I was writing.  The book Inner Power NOW is to help strengthen families, parents and children, with soothing breathing techniques, guided imagery, and meditation.  It’s intended to relieve stress and embrace healing at home, in pediatric hospitals, and at school.

Following my brief talk, Jack went on stage and asked if he could endorse my book once it’s done.  He said he believed this is really needed and could benefit parents and children.  To me, that was a Divine moment because earlier in the week I had been asking for clarity before my meditation—”please give me a sign.”  I was questioning whether I was on the right path wanting to teach these skills and techniques to both parents and kids.  Now, I had received a clear sign—Jack’s promised endorsement!  But that’s not all.

In the past few months, Jack not only came through with an endorsement, but he wrote a fabulous foreword to my book which will be published in February 2019.  Then, because I had asked about a possible video testimonial, he also sent a beautiful video message that I may use to help promote Inner Power NOW and audio series.  He is also allowing me to use this message in our possible research at a pediatric hospital in St. Louis and in schools.  This beautiful amazing gift keeps on giving.  Even in my visualizations, I had not even imagined all of this.

What’s the message and lesson?  Keep doing guided imagery and visualize what you most want in your life before you meditate. The key is to have a strong intention and gratitude. Then, surrender it to a power greater than you.  That can be your wiser self, the Divine, or the power of the universe.  Your visualization eventually will come true in some future time.  And remember to ask for a sign, as you let it go.

Click here to get a free guided imagery on how to create your day and become a part of my Inner Power Circle.  You’ll receive updates on the book, bonuses, and newsletter.

Learn to meditate and visualize to help live your dreams.  Turn down the noise, turn off your screens, and embrace calm as a Superpower.  Take advantage of my Holiday Half-Price Sale on all my guided imagery in my store.  

Wishing you peace,

Vicki

 

Vicki Atlas is a Best Mindset Coach and Certified Guided Imagery Specialist.  Vicki is passionate about helping children and parents feel less stressed, more calm, and happier  Find her at HeartTalkNow.com. You can connect with her on Facebook and Instagram or email her at Vicki@HeartTalkNow.com.

Boost Your Recovery with Mindfulness

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It’s difficult in our modern world to take time for ourselves for more peace and calm. In this workshop, we will learn ways to breathe and to allow a deeper connection to our hearts.  Discover why mind-body tools can boost recovery, as well as helping you to grow spiritually.

This workshop will be led by Vicki Atlas-Israel, the author of the upcoming book Inner Power Now.  As a Certified Guided Imagery Practitioner and Best Mindset Coach, Vicki is hired by organizations to help reduce anxiety and to help their team, members, patients, or clients gain skills to improve the quality of their lives.

As you make a deeper conscious contact with your higher power, you will discover a safe place to heal and live with more bliss and ease.Expand your awareness.  Feel less stress and more calm, while improving your connection to your higher self.

Meditation can be healing and these practices are relevant for addictions, clearing past trauma, and chronic illness. We will experience meditation, mindfulness, and guided imagery, plus learn the research behind these techniques.

All are welcomed to attend!  This workshop is open to the public.

This event is sponsored by the Alumni Association of Sierra Tucson and Sober Living by the Sea Residential Treatment

 

Kindness Matters: Pass it On

Today is International Kindness Day.  In a day and age where civility seems to have gone by the wayside, what can we do to create more kindness? Do you know that there’s a direct correlation between showing kindness and receiving kindness? The two acts feed off one another and lead to a perpetual cycle of giving. Your kindness does matter as it ripples out into the world.

Scientists have also discovered a certain hormone called oxytocin which increases when we are empathic or generous. When the level of oxytocin increases, the circuit in the brain that controls fear, anxiety and rage shuts down. That is why practicing kindness leads to greater empathy and morality. It is also difficult to hold a grudge.

It is important to teach children about kindness—what it is, how to identify it, and how to practice it. We develop empathy following rules for expected behavior in the classroom, preventing bullying and developing compassion. Children learn by playing. When children are role-playing, they are also learning about perspectives and skills to stand in another’s shoes. We learn about our differences and similarities.

If we have not learned basic kindness skills by the time we are around 8 years old, it is very difficult to teach. This lack of empathy leads to anti-social behavior.

Without empathy, we have no chance at civility. We need that connection to feel human. We also need to be connected to a purpose greater than our own. Our inner power helps to create the best mindset through meditation and connecting to our heart.

Model civility, practice kindness every day, whether opening a car door, helping a lost puppy find its home, or helping a senior citizen cross the road safely. The very act of kindness creates more kindness, more empathy, and self-respect, and more “feel-good” hormones.

Engaging in kindness and compassion is what makes for a grateful society. And who doesn’t need a little more gratitude in our world? Here’s a way to begin your day in kindness and gratitude with this morning six-minute meditation. Click here to download for FREE this meditation and join my Inner Power Circle!

As Comedian and Talk Show Host Ellen DeGeneres always says, “Be kind to one another!”

Vicki Atlas is a Best Mindset Coach and Certified Guided Imagery Specialist.  Vicki is passionate about helping children and parents feel less stressed, more calm, and happier  Find her at HeartTalkNow.com and CalmingCorner.comfor kids. You can connect with her on Facebook and Instagram or email her at Vicki@HeartTalkNow.com.

Healing Circle at Recovery St. Louis

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Join us for the Healing Circle at Recovery St. Louis on Tuesday, June 26th from 6:00 to 7:30 PM.   This a group meditation process.  We are more powerful when two or more are gathered.

We will learn techniques to connect to our breath to allow a deeper meditation.  Connect to our hearts.  Expand awareness, and feel more peace and less stress.  You will experience meditation, mindfulness, guided imagery, and other mind-body practices to enhance your recover.

As a Certified Guided Imagery Practitioner and Best Mindset Coach, I am honored to be partnering with Recovery St. Louis to co-create these special sessions.

It’s our hope to help make a meaningful difference in your life, and for you to discover a safe place to heal.

With the Healing Circle, we aim to provide healing and build community, whether you are in recovery or not.

 

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